Self-Love Means Allowing Yourself to Feel How You Feel

One of the biggest parts of self-love and self-care is being patient with ourselves.I remember when my therapist told me that what I was going through with my mom's health was a form of "extended trauma". And I think about how this situation we are dealing with right now with COVID-19 is much of the … Continue reading Self-Love Means Allowing Yourself to Feel How You Feel

Sometimes We Have to Slow Down, To Speed Up and Reach Our Goals

You've got to slow down to speed up. My coach used to say this all of the time. It seemed counterintuitive because our main goal was to run faster. But in order to run faster, we had to slow down, pause, and focus on the movement and focus on our form. If we were speeding … Continue reading Sometimes We Have to Slow Down, To Speed Up and Reach Our Goals

Appreciating Delayed Gratification

So many of us often seek out instant gratification. We want results and we want them immediatly. It happens when we go to the gym to get more fit and get frustrated when we don't see progress in a few days. It happens when we start therapy and expect to figure out our entire struggles … Continue reading Appreciating Delayed Gratification