You Can’t Control the Weather, So You Might as Well Dance in the Rain

You really don't know what is going to happen. You can plan and prepare and play the best or worst scenarios over and over in your head. And you still won't know. You won't know if it will rain if you are planning an outdoor event. You don't know what someone's reaction will be when … Continue reading You Can’t Control the Weather, So You Might as Well Dance in the Rain

Celebrate That You Are Living A Life You Once Dreamed Of

As humans, we complain a lot. We complain that it it is too cold and that we miss summer, and then summer comes and we complain that it is too hot and we wish it were fall. We complain that we don't have enough in our lives and that our goals feel so far away. … Continue reading Celebrate That You Are Living A Life You Once Dreamed Of

Remember To Be Your Own Superhero, Too

We spend a lot of our mental energy on others. We make sure that we show up over and over for those around us. We do this so easily, knowing the love we have for those around us is so important to us that we put their needs before our own. We do this over … Continue reading Remember To Be Your Own Superhero, Too

When You Enjoy The Journey, The Magic Happens

My fiance and I spent some time joking around trying to learn a salsa dance to a YouTube video and I told him how stiff he looked. I told him, "Don't try too hard, because that's when you mess up. Just have fun with it." In that moment, I said, "wow, what a blog post", … Continue reading When You Enjoy The Journey, The Magic Happens

You Aren’t A Failure If You Have To Go Back To Therapy

Therapy, just like recovery, doesn't happen on a linear path. You can start therapy and feel like it won't help you and then come back again 2 weeks later and watch your life change. You can start therapy and need to go every week, and then decide you want to stop. And you can even … Continue reading You Aren’t A Failure If You Have To Go Back To Therapy